“You’ve heard the phrase, ‘Find what you love to do, and you’ll never work a day in your life?’
Well, I love helping people heal and grow into the fullest version of themselves. I love the relationship building and bonding that comes with therapy.”
Dan McGrath, Licensed Drug and Alcohol Counselor, understands, from first hand experience, that we all struggle at different times in our lives.
And while our past experiences may have contributed to where we are today, he believes that every person has the inner strength and ability to reach a higher place of connection, understanding, integration, and self-discovery.
His therapy approach is person-centered and affirming, tailored to the client’s unique needs.
Through building a safe and supportive bond with the client, Dan will help clients explore the unknown: connecting the dots to forge new insights into their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors with curiosity and care.
Dan draws on his twenty two years of experience supporting diverse populations of people struggling with mental health conditions, substance-use-disorders, and addictions. He’s worked in both residential and outpatient settings. He’s also facilitated many clinical addiction and mental health recovery groups, along the way.
What led you to become a therapist?
I grew up in a very dysfunctional home. It was the late 60’s, early 70’s, and like many young people, I found myself resisting the social and political norms my parents’ generation followed.
I moved out to Haight-Ashbury, San Francisco, the turbulent epicenter for counterculture. It was a special time and place, with the free-speech, anti-war, and civil rights movements; it also led to a long battle with addiction.
It took me five years to earn my Bachelor’s Degree from UMASS Amherst; I was still running away from the fear of not knowing what I wanted to do with my life.
Finally, at 39 years old, I found a therapist who helped me turn my life around. I started to understand, process, and heal from the trauma I went through as a child. I learned to develop new tools and strengths to meet life’s challenges, and I got sober.
I reached a point in my life where I was able and ready to help others get unstuck, and start embracing their lives.
I went on to earn my Master’s Degree in Counseling from Gordon-Conwell Seminary, and then began to support people struggling with substance-use disorders, addictions, and mental health conditions.
I’ve counseled people from all walks of life, professionals, students, veterans, the incarcerated, and the homeless, in both residential and outpatient settings.
I’ve also facilitated many clinical addiction and mental health recovery groups.
To me, the ability to support others is life-giving because of where I am today.
How would you describe your therapeutic approach?
My approach to therapy is person-centered and affirming. I’ll draw on contemplative approaches grounded in the here and now, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
I find that ACT works well for individuals who struggle to change, dispute, and restructure patterns of unwanted thoughts and feelings.
ACT is built on a behavioral learning theory, in which a person can learn to use mindfulness and behavior changing techniques to confront and accept their experiences, feelings, and thoughts without fighting against them.
We learn to accept our thoughts and feelings without believing they are facts.
We start to define our goals and values in life, recognize what motivates us, and what gives our lives meaning.
Then, we can take action on our values: resulting in a more authentic and fulfilling life.
The Johari Window and Where Discovery Happens
I’m a big fan of the Johari Window, a visual framework used for understanding your life.
Basically, it involves four windows, called “quadrants,” where each quadrant contains information about your self-awareness and how you see others.
The first quadrant, called the Open Area, represents the things you know about yourself and that others know about you. These can include behaviors, knowledge, and skills that you know about yourself and share with others.
The second quadrant, called the Blind Area, represents things about yourself that you aren’t aware of, but that others know about you. It can reveal strengths that you might not realize you have, until someone points them out. It can also reveal deeper issues that you haven’t faced yet, both others sense in you.
The third quadrant, called the Hidden Area, represents things you know about yourself but hide from others. It can involve information about yourself that you want to be kept private, and if you have a large Hidden Area you can work on becoming more open with others.
The fourth quadrant, called the Unknown Area, represents things that are unknown to you and by others.
The fourth quadrant is where therapy happens. With the safe and supportive guidance of your therapist, you discover the unknown, and develop a deeper understanding of self.
What mental health challenges and life situations do you address?
I’ll help adolescents, adults, and older adults work through the following life challenges:
- Anxiety, Panic, and Phobias
- Substance Use Disorder/Addictive Disorders
- Grief, Loss, and Bereavement
- PTSD/Acute Stress
- Academic/Occupational/Work Issues/Career
- Bipolar Disorder
- Anger Management
What is your favorite part of being a therapist?
You’ve heard the phrase, “Find what you love to do, and you’ll never work a day in your life?”
Well, I love helping people heal and grow into the fullest version of themselves. I love the relationship building and bonding that comes with therapy.
And to me, being a therapist is life-giving because of where I am today. I’ve reached a point in life where I’m able to help others heal, and through that, without it ever being the role or responsibility of the client, I continue to learn and grow as well.
Scheduling an appointment with Dan
Dan dedicates himself to forming an authentic and supportive bond with every client he sees. With compassion and curiosity, he will help clients reach a higher level of self-acceptance and self-discovery.
To start working with Dan online or in our West Springfield office, please contact us today at (413) 343-4357.